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What’s the Best Way to Find Affordable Full-Service Long Distance Movers?

Tuesday, January 6th, 2009

Finding long distance movers does not have to be a daunting task. However, it is important you don’t want to pick just anyone. This is because you don’t want to risk your possessions becoming damaged. If your possessions do become damaged, you want to know that you’re dealing with a long distance mover that will take care of things for you. You shouldn’t be left in the dark with a job that is not done well and belongings that are damaged.

Finding the best mover

There are some initial steps that you must take to find the perfect full-service long distance mover. Those steps include:

- Look around in your local area or look on the Internet to see what long distance movers service your area.

- Once you find the full-service long distance movers that service your area, it is time to look on the Internet for reviews on the services that they provide. Reviews are fantastic at helping people make informed decisions regarding the services that they need.

- Once you narrow it down based on Internet reviews, it is time to make the phone call. This means that you’re going to ask them questions such as what sort of insurance they have. You need to know what it is they cover and what they don’t cover so that you know you’re protected.

- Make sure you take a look at the state you are moving to, if it is a different state. The laws differ from state-to-state, which means things could change during the move. The mover should go over this with you when you are telling them where it is you are moving to.

- Get a written estimate for services from the moving company. Don’t trust a verbal estimate. You need to have on paper what your moving service includes and what it doesn’t include. From there you can compare with other companies you have received written estimates from.

- Don’t forget to compare costs. The idea is to find an affordable full-service long distance moving service. You don’t want a service that is going to charge you an arm and a leg for something that someone cheaper can do just as well.

Doing this takes a lot of the stress out of moving. You shouldn’t have to bite your nails down to the quick out of nervousness because you’re afraid valuables are going to get damaged. You should be able to have confidence in your full service long distance movers. You should be able to acquire a track record from them that shows they are very good at what they do.

Other things to consider

When choosing your full-service long distance movers, make sure you get a list of what they do and do not move. This can vary from company to company because of the trucks that they have. This could be something that determines who you choose to be your mover. Remember that your possessions are traveling a long way, so you have to ensure that everything is in good hands.

If you’re ever in doubt about any details of your contract, the ideal full-service long distance movers should have their contract details on their website. This is so you can refer back if you need to. Never let yourself be in doubt over anything. All doubt does is cause you to worry. These tips are in place to try to remove some of that worry. You have enough on your mind when it comes to moving to a new home, so you don’t need more than what you can handle.

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Are Nursing Homes Really Jails?

Monday, January 5th, 2009

You’ve probably never heard of Charls Todd “Bud” Lee, although he was an award-winning photojournalist whose work has been published in “Life” magazine, “Esquire,” “The New York Times Magazine” and even “Rolling Stone.” His photo of a bleeding 12-year old boy in Newark, New Jersey, who’d been caught in the crossfire of a police shooting, graced the cover of “Life” magazine in July, 1967. Almost exactly 16 years later, however, Bud suffered a stroke that left him semi-paralyzed and landed him in a Florida nursing home.

It turns out that Florida law requires nursing home care for Medicaid recipients, rather than allowing them to live wherever they choose. Bud is still there, in the Community Care Center in Plant City, Florida, an involuntary resident, more than five years later–and he’s really angry.

Last September, Bud’s plight caught the attention of Matt Sedentsky, a writer for the Associated Press. Sedentsky’s subsequent September 21st article, arguing that Florida nursing homes, fearful of losing money, have successfully pressured politicians to make such alternatives as in-home health care difficult for Medicaid recipients to obtain.

He reported that Bud Lee has filed a lawsuit in federal court on behalf of the approximately 8,500 Floridians who are similarly institutionalized. As Bud succintly described his situation, “Most of the people come here to die, so you want to die. It is a prison. I can’t escape it.”

A recent study found that seniors fear moving into a nursing home and the loss of their independence far more than death. Indeed, according to the study commissioned by Clarity and the EAR Foundation, fully 89 percent of America’s elderly want to age in place, and will use adaptive technology to stay independent. Their Baby Boomer children, the study noted, are equally concerned about nursing home care for their parents, and they’re eager to support their parents in this quest.

More than one-quarter of the study’s respondents cited as a fear a loss of independence, which is closely aligned with the fear of nursing homes. Moving from their home into a nursing facility is a fear of 13 percent of seniors, while a mere three percent of research study participants identified the fear of death.

These fears appear to be justified. A recent report by the Department of Health and Human Services found that about 17 percent of nursing homes had deficiencies that caused “actual harm or immediate jeopardy” to patients, including infected bedsores, medication mix-ups, poor nutrition, and patient abuse and neglect. In fact, approximately 20 percent of the complaints verified by federal and state inspectors involved abuse or neglect of nursing home patients.

Last May, the 18,000 residents of Albert Lea, Minnesota were shocked to learn that 15 residents of the Good Samaritan nursing home, all suffering with Alzheimer’s or dementia, had been verbally, emotionally and sexually abused by local high school girls who were working at the facility. The subsequent report by the Minnesota Department of Health quoted one employee as saying that “When (the students) would do these things, they would pull the curtain enough, so when they heard a door open, they could stop. They were quite sneaky about what they were doing. The ones they were targeting were those that have Alzheimer’s so bad, that they wouldn’t be able to say it or remember.”

The report found that the abuse involved spitting and putting fingers in mouths, poking breasts and nipples, touching and tapping genitals, sticking buttocks in faces, rubbing buttocks and penises, anal insertion, and restraining residents and teasing them.

Following investigation by state and local authorities, a 19-year old and an 18-year old were charged with gross misdemeanors, carrying a maximum penalty of one year in jail and a $3,000 fine for each count. One of the teens faces 11 charges; the other, 10, including abuse of a vulnerable adult by a caregiver, abuse of a vulnerable adult with sexual contact, disorderly conduct, and failing to report suspected maltreatment. Four of the others, all 17 at the time of the alleged abuse, were charged in juvenile court with failure to report maltreatment.

More than 1.5 million people live in the nation’s 15,000 nursing homes, which are typically inspected annually. They are required to meet federal standards as a condition of participating in Medicaid and Medicare, which cover more than two-thirds of their residents, at a cost of more than $75 billion a year.

Although there are obvious acts of nursing home abuse—long-term over-medication, for example–others are more subtle, or as in the Albert Lea situation described above, difficult to detect because of the dementia of the patient. Consequently, these cases can easily be overlooked by family members. Following are some indicators of abuse:

Bedsores or open wounds are common instances of neglect or abuse. Nursing home personnel often claim that bedsores are normal among frail or immobile seniors. Unfortunately, concerned family members are duped by these explanations, and their parents and loved ones suffer pain and sometimes die from these sores. Experts say that almost all bedsore cases are caused by abuse or neglect. Guidelines require nursing homes to move patients regularly and ensure that sheets and clothing are kept dry. Should a family member find a bedsore, insist that the victim is moved to a medical facility for treatment.

Unexplained bruises, cuts, burns or fractures are often evidence that residents are being dropped or abused by staff personnel. This often occurs when the senior is in a medicated condition. Family members are urged to ask questions to get clarification about these situations, and vague or questionable responses often indicate abuse.

Torn, bloody or stained garments are the best evidence of sexual abuse, which, as described above in the Albert Lea story, frequently occurs in nursing homes, where victims are often medicated or suffer from Alzheimer’s or dementia.

Refusal to allow contact with a resident, or unexplained delays in making the resident available for a visit, indicate underlying abuse, that is, the nursing home staff is attempting to intimidate or prevent the victim’s reporting of the abuse or neglect.

Modifications to the resident’s financial documents, including wills and trusts, are cause for suspicion, particularly if these changes occur abruptly or if the resident cannot adequately explain why they occurred. Such changes suggest that the resident may have been coerced or threatened.

Each of these warning signs should spur action among family and friends, including reports to police. Suspicions of sexual or physical abuse require changing nursing facilities, as well as police involvement. Nursing home residents, who are frequent targets of abuse, nonetheless have civil rights that need to be protected, most often, unfortunately, by concerned family members and friends.

Laurence Harmon is a principal of Great Places Inc., found at http://www.greatplacesinc.com, the leading website providing advice to Baby Boomers, 76 million strong, who are increasingly responsible for their aging parents’ care.

Unique Birthday Gifts For Dad

Monday, January 5th, 2009

What do give a man who has everything? One of these unique birthday gifts for dad, of course!

Grilling for Golfers

Is your dad the king of the golf course and the grill? If so, here’s a gift worth taking a swing at! Not only will the PAR-B-QUE 3-piece grilling set help him show off his golfing prowess right there on the back yard bar-b-que, but the extraordinary design is like no other. Each of the three pieces offers the perfect combination of function for the grill and love for the game of golf.

He’s guaranteed a hole-in-one with the spatula putter and golf ball tongs, and the grip on the meat fork is fit for a champion! Every grill master needs his tools, but take it one step further by giving him something he can be passionate about!

The PAR-B-QUE 3-piece grilling set is an unparalleled choice of unique birthday gifts for dad. After all, nothing brings out the caveman in a guy quite like standing over raw meat with a club in his hand — is there any better gift than that? This one is an ace for sure!

Engraved Cuff Links

If your dad has that certain “distinguished gentleman” allure, then the set of personalized silver cuff links just might be the ideal gift. Each stunning silver cufflink in the pair arrives engraved with one, two, or three initials of your choice, offering a handsome nuance to his professional wardrobe.

Even if your father is more casual than collected, personalized silver cuff links still make a great gift. If dad only dresses up on special occasions, your touching gesture will mean that much more. In fact, he’ll pull your gift out for all of the most important moments in his life, and that makes for an exceptional birthday gift he won’t soon forget.

Business Card Sculptures

Almost everyone has business cards these days, and now you can turn them into truly unique birthday gifts for dad! Even a man who seems to have everything isn’t likely to have one of these unusual items on hand, so you can bet on this one being an instant hit!

The golfer card sculpture is the ideal desk accessory for a father who loves the game of golf.

All you need is to send off 20 of your dad’s personal business cards and you’ll receive a perfectly posed three-dimensional figure with one heck of a golf swing! Your dad can admire the stance and show off his business all at once, and it’s the ideal distraction for those days when he’d rather be anywhere other than work.

If you dad prefers the expanse of his executive office to the golf course, then the executive business card sculpture is the better choice for him.

He’ll find it impossible not to smile when this hardworking cardboard figure catches his attention, and you can be sure that it will! This little man sits at a desk that offers a great view of the face of the business card as he takes an important call, and every detail has been meticulously crafted to create a conversation piece that you can bet that he’ll proud of.

Both card sculptures arrive on a handsome walnut base and include a glass dome that offers a full 8″ of coverage. The classic presentation is the perfect finishing touch to this spectacular and very unusual gift!

For more information on unique birthday gifts for dad and last minute birthday gift, go to www.Coolest-Party-Ideas.com for some extra personalization fun!

Muck Boots in the Snow Fort

Monday, January 5th, 2009

My kids love to play outside in the winter, especially when there is ten feet of snow. But, I don’t know of any mother that has had an easy time finding quality winter boots for their kids. When your kids like to play outdoors in the snow and mud like mine do, keeping them warm and dry can be nearly impossible! Usually by the time my kids wander back inside, their little feet are frozen solid. But this doesn’t happen anymore, not since they started wearing Muck Boots.

Now, the kids can go outside for long periods of time and really get down to business building their snow forts. Nothing can be more fun than burrowing a big hole in the side of a backyard snowbank and hiding inside. I’ve never been inside a real igloo, but if they make the fort big enough for me then I can’t resist climbing inside to check it out! Digging a hole in a snowbank takes time, though, and staying warm long enough to get the job has always been a challenge. Muck Boots are thermal insulated to keep those little toes toasty for as long as it takes to finish the task.

Muck Boots actually have a completely solid rubber construction, making them 100% waterproof. Though I have heard this claim before about other boots I have bought for my children, I have never found it to be true before. I didn’t think this was even possible with a kids boot, but Muck Boots really solves the problem of getting a waterproof boot. And, when my kids take off their Muck Boots (yes, they can get this kind off all by themselves), their feet are still warm and toasty inside—their feet are definitely the last thing to get cold now! The stretch-fit topline binding fits snugly to the calf, keeping snow from piling inside, yet allowing complete freedom of movement during any igloo building, climbing, or running that might happen.

One of the great things about the Muck Boots for kids is that they not only work great in the cold and snowy conditions, but when spring arrives and all that beautiful snow turns the backyard into a huge mud pit, these same boots work like a charm. They keep the mud and wet out nicely, and they are super easy to clean up, all I have to do is hose them off. Again, that solid rubber construction makes them the perfect choice for any outdoor conditions.

I won’t go back to buying the cheap, generic rubber boots for my kids ever again. I have finally found some boots that I can trust to keep them warm and dry when they play outside. There are several Muck Boots kids’ styles to choose from, depending on what you need. Kids should be playing outside more, anyway, and I know that my kids are playing outside this winter more than ever, now that they stay warm and dry longer. Muck Boots has made this possible!

Don VanPelt is a writer for Muck Boots Direct who has published many articles about boots. Read his comments and recommendations for the best places to buy Arctic Muck Boots at Muck Boots Direct.

Tips For Blended Family During the Holiday

Sunday, January 4th, 2009

During the holiday for some people it can be very difficult to choose who or where to go when there is a blended family involve.

This new way of celebrating the holidays can be difficult for the children in making grown up decision of who they want to spend time with.

Creating new tradition

It can be difficult for the newly formed parents to decide who to go to for the holidays because you may feel that who ever you pick to go to as an example with the in-laws the other may feel bad or left out.

Creating a new tradition can be the way to go to bring newness and fun for you and your children and to be open to this new way of behaving.

Children have a hard time in accepting change when comes to leaving one parent behind when they are accustom to having their traditions at Christmas.

No guilt

Children in a blended may have a hard time accepting the new person into their family because of the fear of liking the new person as much or close to their feeling for their parent.

Children may feel that they are doing something wrong or that they are forgetting their parents’ traditions and may wish to continue this again.

Children may feel guilty and do not want to be in a place that they have to choose one parent and their partner over the other parent.

Making a decision which parent is going to have the children and for what occasion can either be, easy or difficult depending on the feeling of the parents and children that need to work it out.

Doing things together

Your children wants to be reassured that they are not leaving out another parent and that they are allow enjoying their time with the other parent and not feeling guilty and that is where the other parent responsibility is to their children in dealing with the transition.

Listening

To help children to make a better transition from moving from one family they may feel that they are abandoning one to go to another is giving them a chance to express their feeling without attempting to cover it up or justify it.

So before expressing your feeling as an adult it is a good thing to listen to your children before you make your decision.

One parent may be alone

If one parent is left alone and the children knows about it the other parent has a responsibility to reassure the children that the one that is left alone will be fine with out them so no guilt is form.

Making a new transition

Making a new step for a parent is not always easy to be welcome in the new family and also difficult for the children involve.

Each person that you may come across may have their own ideas of whom or what you should or should not do at a time like this and your responsibility is to first breathe and know that you are not the first to go through this situation or the last.

To know sometimes people in general have difficult in accepting change because it ask of them to adjust and they may not know you well and that may make them uncomfortable.

The new family you are going into wants to know that you will be a better person and will enrich their family, and that they can trust you to do the right thing by the children although they may not be your own.

Conclusion : Blended families during the time of the holiday can be a time of renewal and fun depending on the adults and their openness to change.

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Biggest Shopping Days and Seasons During the Year

Sunday, January 4th, 2009

Black Friday is not the only big shopping day of the year. There are plenty of other days that are giving it a run for its money. However, it is still the leader with its fantastic deals after Thanksgiving Day. But what are the other shopping days and seasons throughout the year that are proving to be quite profitable for businesses? We know that there are more than one.

Mother’s Day and Father’s Day

Mother’s Day is a day in which mom is honored for everything that she has done. It is that one day a year where everyone stops and thinks, ‘Thanks mom for everything you have done for me.’ There are so many gifts that are made available to buy mom such as flowers and even electronics. It has been advertised and hyped up to the point where mom receives gifts similar to what she would receive on her birthday or Christmas.

As for Father’s Day, unfortunately, dad is second place to mom. Father’s Day is still an incredible shopping day, but it definitely does not come with all of the hype that Mother’s Day does. This isn’t to say that dad isn’t appreciated, because he is. It’s just that dads aren’t really gift receivers like mom unless they simply don’t want to admit how excited it makes them, even if you do buy them a tie each year.

Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is another day in which appreciation is shown for your significant other. That’s when the department and food stores start stocking up on roses, various flowers, and boxes of chocolates. There are even stuffed animals and balloons thrown in there to make the day special. This is also a huge shopping day for jewelry stores because this is a day in which a lot of proposals for marriage are made. It may seem a little clich?, but a lot of restaurants seem to set the mood on this particular day, making it perfect for that marriage proposal.

Christmas and Black Friday

The Christmas shopping season is kicked off by Black Friday. It is that shopping day after Thanksgiving in which stores offer up door buster deals by opening their doors at 5:00 a.m. and letting the hundreds, and sometimes thousands, of people into their stores to scoop up the best deals of the season. In all reality, it is the best time of year to shop for such items as clothes, toys, and various other gift items.

Once Black Friday begins, the stores remain busy until Christmas Eve as shoppers are taking advantage of last minute deals to get their last minute shopping done. This explains why these stores have to have extended hours and why they have to have seasonal help. This is by far the busiest shopping season of the year. Where Valentines Day, Mother’s Day, and Father’s Day are all busy periods, the Christmas shopping season lasts just a little under a month. All of the rest only last for a matter of days to a week and that is it.

There you have it!

So there you have it, a rundown of the biggest and busiest shopping days and seasons of the year. Although there are other busy seasons, such as Thanksgiving and the Fourth of July, these are item-specific seasons. You’re either buying food or fireworks. These other seasons are huge money-makers for businesses. They are also great times for people to do their shopping because of all of the sales that encourage people to buy more. So whatever your favorite shopping season is, be sure to find the best deals and to have fun.

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Don’t Compromise Your Child’s Safety This Christmas

Sunday, January 4th, 2009

Sit back for a moment and consider the amount of products available to us on the high street that provides a cheaper alternative to the real thing. Fashion is at the forefront of my mind; as consumers, we are lavished in affordable replications of the unaffordable designer brands. We let the major supermarkets fight between themselves to offer the most cost-effective food aisles, while electrical stores contend with the eclipsing black market.

There is no need to mention names as we all know who I’m talking about, but what I’m really talking about is how we can’t be tempted by a cheaper substitute when lives are involved, even if we save a few pounds.

Almost every week I read articles on children who have disastrous encounters with toys that parents have purchased from rogue trader and unknown retailers. With Christmas looming, these parents are suddenly greeted with extensive and unrealistic wish lists from their kids. They are forced to concede in the secrecy of their idiotic minds that by getting that doll from the guy down the pub or racing car from the woman at the Sunday market will not only save them a few quid this year, but will serve as a safe equivalent. And who is to question their parental decisiveness? They’re only kids, right – would they even tell the difference? The main difference is a very thin line between them stroking the loose hair on their new Barbie doll, to actually choking on it. Yes, they are kids now.

It is estimated that a distressing 35% of toys that are imported into the UK are not meeting the safety criteria set by the Trading Standards Institute (TSI) and are being sold in shops and on market stores, with more arriving during the festive period.

“Some countries are completely ignoring the safety standards required by the UK market,” says Christine Heemskerk from the TSI. “China, for example, has very poor safety controls and is the world’s biggest toy exporter. The problem is compounded by some unscrupulous retailers illegally stamping safety marks on products which have not passed the necessary safety tests. Everyone is concerned – manufacturers and enforcement authorities alike.”

Three years ago, trading standards chiefs claimed unsafe toys had virtually disappeared from Britain, partly due to extremely robust European regulations. The epidemic, however, has since returned with China sustaining their lax controls and now exporting a staggering 22billion toys a year – 20 million of these entering the UK.

But, it is the household brands that have come under scrutiny lately. In June this year, Mattel, the world’s biggest toymaker, were forced to recall 94,000 Fisher Price products and thousands of Barbie furniture play sets over fears that their paint contained excessive amounts of lead. A Month later, two million Polly Pocket, Batman and Doggie Daycare toys were also taken off the shelves because they contained small magnets.

“We have to target the manufacturers as they are regularly contracting and subcontracting out their work,” Heemskerk continues. “We find the biggest risks come from small parts, lead in paints and highly-toxic chemicals in some plastic toys.”

Council trading standard bosses are also vehemently warning shoppers this Christmas to be vigilant when buying baby products and children’s games after uncovering potentially lethal fake toys across the country. The Local Authorities Coordinators of Regulatory Services (LACORS), which works closely with local council trading standards, claims officers seized tens of thousands of counterfeit items since September, with a large proportion bearing the names of popular children’s characters.

“The fakes are often poorly made, don’t carry the required CE safety mark and can break easily, posing choking hazards,” says a spokesperson for LACORS. “We have seized large quantities of toys from various outlets, including warehouses, shops, market stalls and street traders.”

The list of areas involved in the operation is voluminous and it is seemingly apparent there is no corner of the country where illegal or dangerous toys can hide. Norfolk Trading Standards apprehended more than 600 counterfeit ‘Hello Kitty’ toys from a stall in a Norwich shopping centre, while Bedfordshire Trading Standards seized 400 unsafe items from a baby store in Bedford. And Trading Standard officers in Salford, Liverpool, Blackburn and Bury have between them confiscated thousands of fake toys displaying brands such as Disney and Spiderman.

Babyoka are an online baby shop that work with all the top brands and some less well-known, but reputable manufacturers. They are fully aware of the imperilments when children and toys merge, and are especially rigorous with the manufacturers they use and the safety standards that need to be adhered to.

“We work very closely with all of our manufacturers to ensure that we only stock products that are completely compliant with all required safety standards, including visiting the factories themselves,” says Rebecca May at Babyoka. “Stay safe, shop at Babyoka and remember: a sensible parent means a safe and happy child.”

So, a busy schedule ahead for local authorities, manufacturers and retailers at a time when the season of giving and sharing begins. Never before have parents’ judgement and attentiveness been needed to make Christmas a happy one – not a fatal one.

Matt Crick is writing for Babyoka, a leading online retailer of quality baby products and nursery goods who aim to deliver next working day. They offer top brand name products along with other high quality baby supplies from some less well known, but reputable manufacturers. They are a small family run business who offer a friendly service, with customer care being their main priority; making them an unrivalled online baby store

10 Things To Consider Before Getting Gifts For Children

Sunday, January 4th, 2009

Choosing safe toys for toddlers is an important job for any parent. You need to keep in mind the child’s age, interests and skill level. Each child is different so a toy for one three year old may not be appropriate for another child of the same age because their skill level is different. You want to look for quality design and construction in the toy you are choosing for a toddler. Read the directions before you purchase a toy. Be sure they are clear and concise. Read the label carefully as it contains important information. Some toys will have clear warning that state “Not recommended for children under three.” In this case, if the child is two, this would not be a safe toy for that child. Other warnings include “Flame resistant” and “Washable materials.” These are safe toys for toddlers. Let’s take a look at some different types of toys and their safety features.

1. Sharp edges- Toys for children under the age of eight years old should be free of sharp glass and metal edges. Toys that are made of brittle plastic or glass breaks easily, exposing sharp points and edges. Wooden, metal and plastic toys may have sharp edges due to being poorly made. Keep in mind that toys that are used for long periods of time and aren’t made very well may break and the edges will become exposed and sharp.

2. Small parts- Toys that are from years ago can have smaller toys hidden inside which is a danger for toddlers who can swallow a small object. There is a new law however than stops toy manufacturers from putting any small parts in toys that are intended for children under the age of three years old. This includes but is certainly not limited to small eyes that are just glued on to stuffed animals and dolls, removable squeakers on squeaky toys and dolls and stuffed toys that are stuffed with small pellets which can be swallowed and lodged in a child’s throat or ears.

3. Loud noises - Loud noises scare small children. Just look at any toddler at a fireworks display. Most of them are startled and jump at the banging of the fireworks. Toy cap guns should not be purchased for any toddler. Not only do they scare children but some of them can do damage to a toddler’s hearing. There is a law that requires that all noisemaking toys carry a label that states “Warning: Do not fire closer than one foot to the ear. Do not use indoors.”

4. Cords and strings - Many toys on the market today have some kind of string attached to them. Like the Seek and Say toys where you pull the string and the toy says a saying or makes an animal nose. These kinds of toys are dangerous for toddlers. Even though the string is attached to the toy, pulling the string hard enough can easily break the string. Any toys with sting or cords can easily become wrapped around a child’s neck. Never hang any toys that have long strings from a toddler’s crib or playpen.

5. Sharp points - This is a bit different that sharp edges. Older toys were made with objects such as pins, staples and wires which are of course dangerous to preschool aged children. A new law now states that toys made for children under the age of eight years of age cannot contain sharp points. Be sure to double check and make sure that dolls clothing, hair or accessories do not contain staples or pins.

6. Propelled objects - I think these types of toys are dangerous for kids of any age but this holds true especially in younger children. Propelled toys are like missile launches and Frisbees. They can be dangerous when flying through the air and hits a child in the eye or even cause head injuries if it hits hard enough. Other propelled objects include lawn darts or darts from a dart board game.

7. Age appropriate toys - Believe it or not, not all toys are suitable for all children. Be sure to follow the labels exactly as stated. Some toys can be bought for an older child and get into the hands of their younger brother or sister in which the toy is not intended for. Be especially wary of balloons. Balloons that are not blown up can be a chocking hazard.

8. Electric toys - Here are another type of toy that is pretty dangerous at any age. My nephew suffered burns on an electric train that was improperly wired. This was many years ago and now electric toys must be made with specific surface temperatures, electrical construction and very clear warning labels.

9. Infant toys - There are many toys on the market today that are made for infants such as rattles and teethers. It is important to make sure these toys are large enough so that they cannot be swallowed.

10. Online Reviews - When in doubt about any toy, do a search for the toy and then put the word review after it. You will find other users of that particular toy and the positive and negative experiences they had.

Age Appropriate Toys: Here are some toys that are safe toys for toddlers.

0-18 months

Stacking toys

Picture blocks

Picture books

18 months- 3 years

Tricycle

Hobby horse

Push-pull toys

Dollhouses

Blackboard with chalk

3-6 years

Playhouses

Toy soldiers

Trains

Race car tracks

selvi is a busy working mom of two young daughters. For cool preschool activities,free printables,science projects and etc, visit http://amazing-preschool-activities.com

Kids Birthday Party Places

Sunday, January 4th, 2009

Is it time to plan your kid’s birthday party again? Every year around that time you’re wondering - has it been a year already? What are we going to do THIS year? I don’t think I want 20 kids at my house again… so, what other options do we have?

If you’re that mom (or dad), here are some suggestions:

Build-A-Bear Workshop

For the kids who love Teddy Bears - this is the ultimate Teddy Bear birthday party. Kids get to choose a Teddy Bear (or any other animal within the price range selected) and give it a personality by stuffing it, fluffing it, giving it a voice, dressing it up, accessorizing it, and giving it a name. There is also a “Heart Ceremony” where each kid gets to choose a “heart” and make a wish, before placing it inside his animal.

Each kid gets a “Birth Certificate” with his Teddy Bear’s name, and a little cardboard house to take the Teddy Bear home as a goodie bag. Teddy bears, voices, clothes and accessories all vary in prices. You can designate a price range (starting at $10) for each one of the categories that suits your budget. Parties are for 6 kids or more and include a “party leader” who manages the party process and entertains the kids.

Chuck E. Cheese

Chuck E. Cheese is a chain of family entertainment centers and has been a kids’ favorite for many years. It offers indoor fun activities and games for kids of all ages. From play structures, tubes, slides and small rides to Air Hockey tables and arcade games.

Birthday parties at Chuck E. Cheese are fun and affordable. Parties are scheduled throughout the day, every day, and combine playtime with party time. Party tables are decorated and set up by the Chuck E. Cheese staff (as well as clean up) and are reserved for 90 minuets.

Every party gets a birthday performance featuring “Chuck E. Cheese and his musical friends” who entertain the kids with a little song and dance show. In a typical party each kid gets Pizza, soft drink, cake and game tokens (number of tokens depends on the package you choose).

The birthday kid gets a collector’s cup, cotton candy, a crown, and a helium balloon. Additional party options such as extra cake, goodie bag, or collector’s cup are available for purchase. You can also bring your own cake and/or ice cream.

Golfland Entertainment Centers

There are currently 9 Golfland Entertainment Centers throughout California and Arizona. Each Golfland has a unique theme and many combine different kinds of attractions. Birthday party packages at Golfland and SunSplash entertainment centers vary for each location. Golfland Birthday Party package ranges between $8.50 - $12.99 per kid (depending on the location) and requires 10 kids minimum.

Basic package may include One round (18 holes) of miniature golf, pizza and soft drinks, arcade tokens, party supplies, and complimentary round of golf for the birthday kid.

The Sunsplash Birthday Party package is for kids 14 years old or younger, and require 10 kids minimum. Each package costs $23.00 per kid Monday - Thursday, and $24.00 per kid Friday - Sunday, and may include all day admission to Sunsplash Waterpark, Hamburger & fries or Pizza and a soft drink, party supplies, and complimentary Waterpark Pass for the Birthday Kid.

There are also add-ons and upgrades that can be purchased for each package (where available): Miniature Golf, Laser Tag, Race Cars, Bumper Boats, Golfland Waterslide, Golfland Arcade, Birthday cakes, Goodie bags, and Ice Cream.

LEGO

For kids 6 and older who love LEGO - this is a dream come true. This ultimate LEGO party offers 1 - 1.5 hours of creative play activity in the LEGO store. Each party is customized for the birthday kid and is led by LEGO party host.

There are different themes for boys and for girls to select from:

BIONICLE

LEGO Star Wars

Mosaics & Creator

LEGO Racers

LEGO CITY

Party package starts at $10 per child, and the minimum number of kids is 5. Each kid get to take home a goodie bag with a set of LEGO, and the birthday kid also gets a LEGO Birthday Brick.

My Gym Children’s Fitness Center

Each birthday party at My Gym is age appropriate and tailored to the birthday kid’s favorite activities and games. Birthday party packages vary from one location to another and may run for 1.5 - 2 hours.

Cost for each party also varies depending on the location and the number of kids, which can be from 15 - 25. Each package may include exclusive play in the gym and is facilitated by My Gym trained teachers.

Activities include games, gymnastics, Space Flight, puppets, rides, songs and other birthday festivities, where the birthday kid is at the heart of the celebration. All kids get to participate in all activities.

My Gym staff will setup and decorate the place, serve the refreshments and even clean up after the party. Party goodie bags can be added to the package at additional cost.

Pump It Up

Pump It Up offers indoor birthday party packages for kids ages 2 and up and features huge inflatable play structures in different shapes and sizes for climbing, sliding, jumping and playing. There are two birthday party packages to choose from:

“Classic party” is for up to 25 kids and “Mini-Classic Party” is for up to 14 kids. The kids get to spend some time in one play area, then move to another play area, and then at the party room.

Both Party packages include Color invitations, party supplies, supervision by trained staff during play time, and Party set up and clean up. Pump It Up goodie bags and inflated helium balloons can be added to each package for additional charge.

The Little Gym

Each birthday party at The Little Gym is tailored for the birthday kid and is facilitated by friendly staff. All parties feature fun activities with movement, and exclusive use of the gym for the duration of the party.

Birthday parties are 90 minutes long and can be scheduled for Saturday or Sunday. Birthday party packages vary for each location.

The cost for each party depends on the location and the number of kids, and may include Two staff members to facilitate the party, setup and cleanup, “The Little Gym” invitations, party supplies, and “The Little Gym” T-shirt for the birthday kid.

YMCA

The “YMCA” is a world-wide not-for-profit community service organization with a special emphasis on community development and

young people. The YMCA’s mission is building a healthy spirit, mind, and body and its motto is “We build strong kids, strong families, strong communities”.

Birthday party packages at the YMCA vary from one location to another. Depending on the facility, some parties may include swimming, games, and sports activities. Cost varies for each location.

For more details about each party place and photo gallery please visit the Birthday Party Places section of our website: http://www.cool-kids-places.com/birthday-party-places.html.

Dee Adams is a mom to a 7 year old boy and the owner of Cool Kids Places, a website for parents looking for fun and interesting places to go with their kids.

Tips on Moving From a Big City to a Small Town

Saturday, January 3rd, 2009

In the first place, you’re the envy of many people, excluding the ones who are crazy. Small town life is better suited for human beings. We were not meant to be crammed into 20-story skyscrapers that are less like apartments than filing cabinets for people. We were not meant to spend three hours per day in traffic. We shouldn’t have to smoke cigarettes just to clean the smog out of our lungs.

Like breaking a bad habit, it will take some time before you lose your big-city ways and settle down with the locals. The locals can tell that you’re from the big city. They can’t miss it. They see the way you hug the walls and dart everywhere, speak only when spoken to, and drive your car like you stole it. You’re either from the big city or seriously antisocial.

Your tempo of life will be exceptionally out of place the first year. This is because the big city has no tempo of life. It has a frenzy. The small town has a tempo, and it will gradually make itself known to you. It will come out in the way the postman gets to your door just before sunset, the stores all close by suppertime, and every driver on the road gives you the right of way. They’ll gently nudge you into their way of thinking when they surprise you by remembering your name the next time you walk in the store, and indeed by caring what it was in the first place.

Just after you’ve moved to a small town is the best time to take some vacation from work. Give yourself a reason to sleep in a couple of mornings, then just tour around the town and take your time getting to know it. You won’t have your potentially hectic job getting in your way, so you’ll be able to relax. You’ll also have a couple of nights to sit up in bed wondering what that sound is. Oh… it’s crickets.

Big cities make you a little paranoid, and it will take some time for that twitchy reaction reflex to go away. You no longer need a crowbar to defend yourself from beggars and panhandlers in front of the store. Look around and notice the lack of graffiti and vandalism. Start your day with the local TV news; where before you got to hear an endless stream of shootings, robberies, and kidnappings, now a water main breaks in the town’s only park - and it’s the story of the day!

Shopping will be a pinch. Businesses in small towns tend to be limited in options and to close early. This is a good time to brush up on your online buying, since the Internet gives you so much more variety. But look for quirky little shops that you wouldn’t find in a big city; for there lives the soul of a small town. Be ready for a slower pace on shopping day. The clerk will be talkative and candid, and any locals you bump into there will be going on about the weather like they’ve never seen it before.

Where do they have the fun in this town? Well, fun is what you make of it. If you’re single, you’re going to have a tough time of it. Small towns are for families, where you have the kids running around so much that boredom is a welcome relief, and where mum and dad make their own recreation after the kids are in bed. Don’t miss the community attractions, though - go see that World’s Largest Ball of Twine and get your picture taken next to the giant plaster Mexican Tyrannosaurus Rex wearing the sombrero outside the tacquieria. Spot some trains, chase a kangaroo, and go fishing for trout. Isn’t that what you came for?

Don’t worry, the natives know that they have a boring life, and they compensate. That’s where all the goofy pumpkin-bowling contests and line-dancing nights come from. If there is a bar within city limits, it will be infected with the karaoke virus. Getting so drunk that you can’t control your singing used to be just something annoying that people did, but now it has a name and they charge extra on the drinks for those nights and there’s a club to join for it. It got popular because it turned out to be a great way for 40-year-old singles to hook up. It’s easy to find a date when you’re all at someplace that’s guaranteed to be stocked with people who have nothing better to do at the moment.

Just know that once you’ve adjusted to small town life, you can’t go back to the large city again. You’ve culled yourself from the herd. You’ll just take off walking across an intersection forgetting that you can get flattened by the next SUV driven by the Starbucks-addict on her cell phone. You’ll greet a stranger on the street and his response will be to mug you. And you’ll never be able to sleep there, because you’re used to not sharing a wall with neighbors. No, it’s too chancy to risk. Just stay in the small town circuit and let the rest of the world drive each other crazy.

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